funny how one single sentence can be interpreted differently into 2 or 3 or 4 or even more other meanings.... by different people with different perspectives, different sentence struture, different thinking, different tone in voice, different way of saying and resulting in different thinking, different feelings, different reactions and mainly different interpretation.... i guess thats where communication playz an important role in clarifying issues... miscommunication can lead to misinterpretation... which often result in misunderstanding.... can i say that??

social-economic status (ie. upbringing, standard of living, education etc etc) shapes our character into who we are.... to a certain extend.... but then again.... life is about making choices... it will still voice down to the choices we make in the end..... slow food or fast food??chicken rice or duck rice?? take the CTE or PIE?? take mrt or bus faster?? attend lectures or go shopping?? watch "meet the fockers" or "phatom of the opera"?? tea or coffee?? channel 5 or channel 8?? happy or sad?? angui or cool?? smile or frown?? slp or dun slp?? eat or dun eat?? meet or dun meet?? bathe or dun bathe?? play or dun play?? say or dun say?? forget or dun forget??drink or dun drink?? let go or hold on tightly?? go back brissy sooner or later........?? O....K... im drifting too far off liaoz.... anywayz... yes... CHOICES... well... its not onli abt making CHOICES... its about making the RIGHT one.....

my mum is one woman with a pretty hot temper, perfectionist, cant take things easily, get worked up pretty fast, one single thing on her mind can make her think abt it til she can lose slp over it... i still remember that period of time she got this illness.... her hands will shake pretty badly when she hold them up straight infront of her.... her dropping blood pressure..... she thinned down so much... everytime i looked at her... my heartaches... and cried... to see her already tiny frame go even skinnier... upsets me... the medication she has to take... the constant supervision from our family doctor... im glad she had recovered from it... slowly... heard from her tt the illness mayb heritary.. coz a couple of my aunties also had it... heard from a fren of mine (whose age is ard my mum's age) that she too recovered from tt illness.... advised me to advise my mum to take things easy... dun get frustrated or worked up too easily... try to relax.... smile worries away.... be happy... that was wat she learned from the illness and to control it... and prevent any relapse... *faint* i dowan to be like my mum... i dowan to be down with tt illness (duhz.. who wans to be sick..) coz... i hav a character JUS LIKE MY MUM.... get frustrated easily... worked up easily... okie.. so why suddenly my mum??? jus becoz i commented " well... this is one thing abt me... i get worked up easily...... JUS LIKE MY MUM". there.. im not trying to shrink my responsibilities and tell u tt im blaming my mum for my characters jus becoz she gave birth to me... im jus simply saying... we have similar characters.... i mean.. i tell people tt im JUS LIKE MY DAD too wat... all quiet quiet... keep things to myself.... there again... im not trying to blame my dad for me being like me (all quiet and stuff)... and tell people... "hey look... im quiet.. so wat.. blame my dad" or "*booo* i have no frens becoz im too quiet, nobody wans to tok to me... becoz my dad is quiet.." HUH?!?! no way im saying tt man.... wat i meant was... simply... it might be a reason behind my character... i mean... they ARE my parents.. they gave birth to ME... i have THIER genes... its right to say tt isnt it... but tt doesnt mean im BLAMING them for who i am...

*saving my draft* jus in case it cork up again.....