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Thought of the day :: .... communication....... commitment...... and trust...
communication • noun 1 the action of communicating. 2 a letter or message. 3 (communications) means of sending or receiving information, such as telephone lines or computers. commitment • noun 1 dedication to a cause or policy. 2 a pledge or undertaking. 3 an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action. trust • noun 1 firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something. i was told... in a relationship... communication and commitment are the 2 major components. i dun deny they are VERY important... but i tink.. trust plays an important part too.... between 2 people... there can be heaps of communication... heaps of commitment.... but if there's no trust... it amounts to nothing and the relationship should not be termed as relationship.... am i rite to say that?? here's another thing abt trust... is it something that's *snapz* there it is.. or something that needs to be earned over time?? and wat can u do to earn someone's trust?? trust is something that will be hard to earn back once it's lost... depending on the degree of importance as well.... wat criterias should there be to determine the amount of trust one should hv.. for another person?? the things u had done?? the things that u hadnt done?? the things OTHER people did?? *pause* *dip my fingers into Pringles...* the thing abt Pringles is... "once u start, u cannot stop"... hahahha anywayz... lets not side track... yapz... TRUST... so... let see.... if some one said... "look... dun disappoint me" doesnt tt three words says alot of the amount of trust there is?? correct me if im wrong.... but doesnt that sentence sounds as if it serves as a reminder?? as if getting across to the other person telling him/her *blank* (suddenly.... my mind jus went blank, i guess.... words arent able to describe it). perhaps telling the other person.. " since it happened once... im afraid it might happen again... so.. please... tell me tt it wont... reassure me it wont happen...." yes.... past experiencez bring fears... it isnt fair to stereotype anyone either.... u bought a bag of apples from the supermarket.... took one and ate it.... filled with worms.... doesnt mean the nex one u take... is going to be spoiled.... or the whole carton of apples is spoiled apples... or that whenever u wanna eat an apple... it will bring u fear as u are afraid tt it would be filled with worms again.... or worse still.. dun eat applez anymore... one thing tt can be done... would be to pair an apple with something else... pair it up with an orange.... which u nv came across any bad ones... or... cut the apple up into wedges... then u can see clearly whether its spoiled or not... OR... simply jus trust that the nex apple is not going to disppoint u lah.... simm-PURL?? (in an indian accent) " im not the one who betrayed tt trust.... why am i the one who has to try my best and earn tt trust...?? " [lEfT oUr pRiNtZ__*__sIlLyGiRl] at 5:37 pm
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