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Thought of the day :: ..... pls dun quarrel in front of ur children... no matter wat.....
Current parents.... dun quarrel in fornt of ur children.... Parents-to-be.... dun quarrel in front of ur children..... not-yet parents but intend to be parents somewhere down the road..... DUN QUARREL IN FRONT OF UR CHILDREN!!! get that in ur head... screw it in.... pound it in.... watever it takes... remember my wordz.... watever the issue is abt... dun quarrel in front if ur children.... whetehr the issue is abt them... abt the both of u.... abt other people.... dun ever tink tt if it doesnt involve them... it doesnt matter to them.... coz thatz WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! somewhere somehow somewat... its going to affect them in one way or another.... to see both parents quarrelling over issues.. over lunch..... the onli time the whole family can gather to have lunch .... once a week.... why does she has to kick a big fuss outta nothing.... does it increase her appetitide by quarrelling with her husband??? why cant she jus take things easy... chill... let go and enjoy a good sunday lunch over the lunch table?? the onli time the whole family sits down and eat.. and tok.... and she has to get all tensed up and comment on this comment on tt.... that little time left she had with her daughter before she flys back.... does she know that her children can be badly affected by watever goes on... even if its between the parents.... does she know tt she has two choices, one is to eat happily and the other is to pick on little things to fight?? does she appreciates the time when (i dunno how mnay times do i hav to stress) her husband is trying to make all things well.. and there she is trying to destroy everything?? does she realise that she can make things better?? does she know that she's the crucial one?? does she even know tt each word or each thing she does is very significant to her children?? does she know that her children are affected by these?? does she?? she doesnt..... dun tink tt ur children will not be affected by the issues quarrelled by adults... coz subconciously... u are doing damage to their social life... they can become abusive, low self esteem when i comes to relationships with other people, anti social.... "....Sometimes i dunno why do i bother spending so much time with them when most of the times are unhappy....." why do i feel inferior.... intimidated..... and weird..... ??? *shrugz* i dunno.. why should i?? *AH CHU!!!* "if there's anything.. i hv moved on for the better, no i mean the best" tt helped abit... but it doesnt totally cancel out that weirdo feeling i get everytime she's around... low self esteem?? too much upward comparisons?? feeling of low self-worth?? then again... looking at who's the one standing beside him now... doesnt tt prove something?? that all my worries are unnecessary.... but..... how would u feel if u see me toking to ray then?? ...... was out with my dajie on wednesday nite... ladies' nite... when to phuture... BORING.... so mnay young kids around... 18, 19, 20... i sat there.... waiting for nice music to come on... felt so old... its gets pretty happening onli towards the end.. 1 plus.... but then.. by then... its too crowded to even move... let alone dance... moved on to zouk... then to velvet... boring leh.... maybe i clubbed too much in the pass already... now... club or dun club... doesnt bother me too much.... but then.. my dajie so nice and sweet.... i know she's not so much into RnB, and havent been clubbing for VERY VERY long... but she still accompany me go and stayed with me til i suggest to go home... so touched lo!!! THANX DAJIE!! will miss u when i leave... and really missed the times we had when we were clubbing our lifes away at double O and chinablack... life change... people change... u changed.... i changed... jus wanna wish u all the happiness lo... i mean.... u happy can already... i will support the things u choose to do... be it still hanging on to tt relationship.... i jus hope tt u will be happy.... *wink* [lEfT oUr pRiNtZ__*__sIlLyGiRl] at 1:27 am
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