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Thought of the day :: "STEPPING OUTTA YOUR COMFORT ZONE" is THE key
recently this has been on my mind very much... reason may be becoz of the things im going thru.. and may be the things people around me have been going thru... i tink... that its a good practise to learn to step outta ur comfort zone now and then. im stil pretty much learning how to get comfortable to step outta my comfort zone.. ironically u may say.. how can one get comfortable stepping outta their own comfort zone...?? naturally, (and obviously..) u will feel uncomfortable steppin outta ur comfort zone, if not.. it wont be said as "stepping OUTTA ur COMFORT zone". well, when im required to step outta my comfort zone, i usually will whine like nobody's business.. mainly to myself... or to God... mainly also becoz i hate doing things which im not comfortable with... like.. toking to people... or sharing things with people i dunno... mainly the communication part is a extremely BIG and HUGE obstacle of mine. i always catch myself in a familar situation where i am with people whom i dun usually tok to.. and come face to face with my very challenge in life..... TALK!!! why is it so diffcult to tok to someone....?? i dunno... i jus cant tok to people i dunno... or not comfortable with.... there.... thats when i feel uncomfortable. thats when i catched myself in an uncomfortable situation... NOW... the vaccine for this...???? (vaccine??? hahaha) ive learn..through the various and numerous and i-dunno-how-many-times situations i was put in... ive learn something.... to talk.... i can start by asking questions... sometimes.. i tink i ask TOO much questions when it comes to striking a conversation with someone... well.. basically... thats how i get myself toking to somebody... or at least... for a start... THERE... ive stepped outta my comfort zone once again... *CHEERS* another situation is abt my life here in Brissie.. MAN... im leaving... and yes... this is like the 1483 times this week that, that thought came across my mind... its been slightly more than 8 months already. ive learnt to love this place and familarise myself with everything ard here... ha.. my part time home i guess... now.. or at least.. soon.... i have to step outta my comfort zone AGAIN... (and im emphasis A.G.A.I.N!!! ) to go back to singapore. well... like i said.. im excited in a way.. relunctant in another.. oh WELL... since my life is all about steppin goutta my comfort... this shall be it... another learning opportunity in process. Lord... i trust in YOU ok???? There are somany other things that happened in life requires on to step outta their comfort zone.. not onli the major challenges that one might face... EXAMPLEZ??? like....
others are mid-term... where u might need to take a few tries before u start to get used to it..... like the spicy food, u'd take. once might upset ur tummy.... LS non-stop the nite after u had dinner... so might be the second time... and third... and forth... come the fifth time... ur tummy doesnt upset that severly... and the rest is history.. u came to LOVE spicy food..... one or two might be a lifelong lesson... a lesson where uhave to step outta ur comfort zone again and again... u might try it once.. didnt work.... same situation... u tried it again.... u are still stepping on the spot... and third... and forth.... then u slowly step out... u realised uu have stepped out... GOOD FOR U... then shortly after... u are placed in a different place.. but similar situation... different people or things... then again.... u feel uncomfortable.... then u try... again... once twice... three times and u got out.... and shortly after.... u are AGAIN placed in a different place...t similar situation... different people or things... then again.... u feel uncomfortable.... then u try... again... once twice... three times... and the cycle goes on... til the last day of ur life... u are still stuck in the cycle... good or bad... its up to our perspective. if i perceived these as lessons, similar lessons where i can learn over and over again, even thought they are of smiliar situations... they are inidvidual lessons... diff people, diff circumstances... each time i learn from each lesson, i come out with a new insight to things. they may be the same situation... but the things that differ results in different things one can leanr from... i take every stepping outta my comfort zone situation as a lesson and i come out stronger and more insightful than the last time. if i perceived these as a vicious cycle which im totally stuck in... totally have no control over.. totally defeated at the hands of these situations... i'd probably live my life as meaningless... lifeless... no motivations.... i'd probably live my life as boring and does not have any breakthrough.. or it having became a routine... i'd probably be lying in bed wondering wat am i doing here and wondering why i am where i am or wherever i may be there and then... "there's so much more to life than thinking that there's nothing to life... its jus how one perceive life to be..." background music : "Meant to live - Switchfoot" (ME laughing in the background... hahahaha....) 10 BIG things I WILL MISS when I head BACK!!! 1. NOT UNI!!! 2. People like Joseph, Michael, Genesis, James, Cipack, Issac, Paul T, Fillo Pol, Paula, and MISS KOH!!! okie.. miss koh i wil be seeing in singapore (hopefully), but basically, the friends i hang out with WEEK IN WEEK OUTR at dance practise!! practising dance and doing crazy and funy stuff!!!! man... dance practises will never be the same again... if there's even ANY... *ppppfffffT* 3. People like SULIN!!!! make sure u come back next JULY ah!!! can graduate one!!!! its been a fun time sharing a house with u. ;) u always crack me up with ur own unique cuteness!!! yes!! even ur LAUGHTER!! 4. little miss always-have-camera-in-ur-hands-to-snap-everything-and-anything..... VANIA!!! aiyooo... u still got how long ah???? then again... u wanna get PR rite??? tsk tsk tsk... *SAD* gonna miss taking crazy pictures with yah!!! 5. the home cook dinners (mainly at Laurel's) that we have been having quite alot lately, with people like... mIss Koh, SOON kueI, TAJIAN!!, KeRRRIiii, the ah-CHEK of the house, and CHICKEN LEGS!!! and stop calling me BABYFACE!!! *the-angui-but-not-angui-face* we conquered so many food WAHAHAHAHA!!! gonna miss having so much fun together cooking!!! 6. the sunday lunches and dinners at the why-we-always-go-there places like HAPPY DRAGON, VIET HOA. TWO places outta the SO MANY weeks!!! can u imagine how many times we hav patroned tHOSE TWO places??? A WHOLE LOT!!! with people like the same gang lah.. 7. enuff of people... SHOPPING!!! man!! DFO!! man!!! HARBOUR TOWN!!! man!!!! PAUL FRANK!!! man!!! SUPRE!!! man!!! TSUBI!!! SASS and BIDE!!! General pants and CO and UNIVERSAL STORE!!!! and ALL the nice ncie things that they sell here!!! man!!! URGH!!! no way... NO WAY that im not going to miss shopping here!! *pull my hair* 8. BCC!!! aka BRISBANE CITY CHURCH. man.. a church that ive learned to call home... a church where i have learned to belong to... a church where i have learn and see so much... a chrch that is there to nurture me thru the year... im so gonna miss BCC and the ministry... its the church and the people.... God is the same everywhere. 9. the sunny weather!!!!!! i love the clear sky they always have ard.... that clear sky clears my mind. the beautiful sunsets. the beautiful orange clouds. the fresh air. 10. The AMAZING saleS they have!!! sales in places like ROBINSONS are crap.... pretty much.. from wat i have posted.. my life here evolves ard church, frens and shopping... WHERE'S the SCHOOL/UNI?? NO LIFE if thats included in MY LIFE!!! =P [lEfT oUr pRiNtZ__*__sIlLyGiRl] at 1:15 pm
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